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UAnderson, uDorothy Dorothy Anderson (Dorothy/Dott), oneminyaka engama-90 ubudala, waseHuber Heights, wasweleka ngoxolo ngoSeptemba 11, 2020. Intombi kaElizabeth (Weaver) kunye nentombi kadadewabo kaJean uJack Dunwoody. Wazalelwa kwisiXeko saseKansas, eMissouri, kwaye usapho lwakhe lwahlala kwindawo yaseDayton. Ufunde eBath (Fairborn) School ('48). UDottie wadibana no-Eugene (Jean) Anderson (Fairborn '44) emva kweMfazwe Yehlabathi II. Watshata ngoDisemba 1950 kwaye unoonyana ababini, uMat noBill. UDot ungumxhasi wamakhosikazi asekhaya, oomama kunye neentsapho, kwaye unceda iGene ukulawula ishishini losapho. Bathenga indlu eWayne Twp ngowe-1959, baza kunye nala makhwenkwe baqalisa ukwakha kwakhona nokwakha okwathabatha amashumi eminyaka: ukudiliza amagumbi, ukongeza izakhiwo, nokugalela iiyadi ezininzi zekonkile. UDot akangomyili nomququzeleli kuphela, kodwa ukwangumsebenzi, umchweli, umhlakulo wegrabile, umakhi wekhonkrithi, kunye nomama. Ngo-1972, uDot noGene bajongana nokhetho: ukushiya ikhaya lamaphupha abo, balandele umsebenzi weGene baye kwelinye ilizwe, okanye balishiye ilizwe leshishini. Bakhetha le yokugqibela, baphinda baqala ishishini labo lokulungisa izixhobo zasekhaya, kwaye ngo-1977 balitshintsha laba yivenkile yezixhobo zeFairborn. Njengeqabane lokwenyani kula mashishini, uDot uthwala uxanduva oluninzi njengeGene. UDot noGene, ababesebenza kakhulu, abazange bathathe umhlala-phantsi ngokwenene xa babethengisa ivenkile. Endaweni yoko, bantywila kwiiprojekthi zokwakhiwa ngokutsha kwendlu ka-DIY kunye nokulungiswa kwayo, awaqhubeka eqhuba nasemva kokusweleka kwakhe ngo-2016. Xa uDotty wayeselula, wayelilungu leCawe yokuQala yasePresbyterian eFairborn. Yena noGene batshata apho, baza kamva baba lilungu elikhutheleyo leCawa yaseBrimstone Grove United Methodist ekufutshane, kwaye kamva babuyela kwiCawa yokuQala yamaRhabe. Wakhonza ubomi bakhe bonke. Lo mfanekiso wobomi bukanina umfutshane, kodwa ufana nejenereyitha yeRenaissance. Njengemvumi ekrelekrele eyachukunyiswa ngokukodwa lilungu, yaqhuba kakuhle kwizifundo zeorgan ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yee-1940, nangona wayengakwazi ukuziqhelanisa phakathi kweeklasi! Wathengela usapho lwethu iorgan enkulu kunye nepiyano, kwaye wasebenza njengeogani kwiicawe ezininzi kwiminyaka embalwa ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe. Kodwa yena ungaphezulu koko. Umama wam ligcisa. Uyapeyinta, aqingqe aze abhaqe ubuhle kwizinto ezingahoywanga nezilahliweyo ngabanye, ezinje ngamatye, amaqokobhe, iintsiba, kunye nemithi yokhuni. Walungisa kakuhle waza wahlaziya ifanitshala yamandulo neekhabhathi, wasusa iileya zepeyinti nokungcola, wenza iimveliso zamaplanga amatsha, wahonjiswa ngokutsha, waza wazityabula waza waziphakamisa izihlalo. Wayigqiba ngesandla yonke imihombiso emihle eyenziwe ngamaplanga endlwini yethu. UMama ngumthungi ogqwesileyo. Ngokukhawuleza nangokulula wenzela yena nosapho lwethu imisebenzi emininzi emangalisayo. Njengomfoti ogqwesileyo kwiminyaka engama-70, unezixhobo zegumbi elimnyama kwaye kamva waziphosa kwindawo yokucinga ngedijithali. Umama yingcali yekhompyutha, kwaye xa ethenga izixhobo zekhompyutha ezintsha, uya kugqogqa kwi-Intanethi. Ungumfundi obawayo kunye nomphumezi wezinto ezintsha: ufunde ukwenza i-tan deerskins kunye neengcibi zentsimbi, kwaye unezixhobo ezifunekayo kuzo zombini. UMama ngumpheki ophum’ izandla, okwaziyo ukujika ezinye izithako zibe zizidlo ezahlukeneyo kunye nezimuncumuncu. Wayeyithanda indalo kunye nezilwanyana ubomi bakhe bonke, ngakumbi izinja ezilahliwe ngabanye. Umama wayezimele kakhulu, egawula iinkuni nasebudaleni bakhe, kwaye wayeqhuba umkhaphi wakhe amthandayo ohamba ngesantya esiguquguqukayo de kwaba ziiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe. Umama unesiphiwo sokukhanda, yaye izixhobo zisoloko zisecaleni kwakhe; xa wayeneminyaka engama-88, watshintsha i-starter yetrektara kwaye walola iiblade ngeejekhi ze-hydraulic, izitshixo ze-pneumatic kunye ne-grinders. Ungumchweli we-DIY, igcisa lombane kunye nomtywini wemibhobho yamanzi! Uya kuhlala engumama, ezinikezele, ehlala evuya ukudibana nathi, kwaye enombulelo ngobomi. Umama wandulela uGene, abazali bakhe, udade wabo kunye nomlanya wakhe uJean noDoug Hanneman. Oonyana bakhe uMat (Joe) noBill (Peggy) nabazukulwana bakhe uLeah, uJudy noKevin basinda. Abasindileyo ngabantwana bakaJean noDoug nabahlobo abaninzi, ngakumbi umtshana uSharon, uCharlene “Ten Gun Tex” uLaCroix (ifilimu kaMama ethi “Water Pistol Willy”), amalungu amaninzi osapho lakwaBurrowes kunye nosapho lwakhe lokuqala lweKlabhu endala. Ilungiselelo linikezelwa nguMakishi kunye neHeller Funeral Home, i-Huber Heights, inikezela ngeenkonzo zabucala. Usapho lwethu lukhethe ukusihlehlisa esi sibhengezo ngelixa silungisa imicimbi yakhe kwaye sibulele ngemfihlo esisinike yona. UMama ucele ilitye lesikhumbuzo egameni leCawa yaseFairborn First Presbyterian kunye neGreater Dayton Humane Society.